ways to ease the dying pain

Every now and then i see ‘all of ‘this’’ as so familiar it feels strange to see something you know you should recognize, but can’t really explain what it is, or even how you think you know it. And under the sun, a time-mesh, so that you can really see that nothing is new. Everything is as it has always been. Different colors and forms, but sameness, mathematical patterning of people, places, loves, wars. That birth and death are so similar. Inevitableness. Hands of God on His creation. For the rest of it, we have voices and we can alter things, eternal things, but for those imminent moments we have to step back. And the moments in between are……all holy. Dealt out second after second more grace, more mercy. But then, there is so much sorrow and so much pain. And i swear all people know it. The same pain that we all can’t express. I think we all know it. It’s a ‘dying pain’ i call it, and there are more than a million zillion ways to die and ways to feel that ‘dying pain’. And i just think that on this earth there is no answer for it, the pain, or the dying. So……….what is it all for. Inevitable pain and suffering!! Great! But seriously, this is about helping each other and in so helping self. I think of it like, sometimes you need to hear a certain word from someone and it makes all the difference WHO, and WHEN its said. Sometimes it’s the right words from the wrong person. It really matters who cares for us. And the relief it brings, ive seen it being lifted, its kind and lovely and life giving in a way, in a way it’s the one time ive witnessed a possibility to answer the ‘dying pain’ .